Okay, so this particular episode of my life was rather hilarious but kinda creepy, too.
I never expected to receive a call from -lets call him the M boy- the M Boy and ask me out. The hell, eh?
The M Boy, I have no idea what he's thinking. Heck, I have no idea who he is, for starters. He's a friend of a friend's friend!!! I have no more reference than that. We've gone out with a group of friends like 3 times only, and last time I saw him was like 2 weeks ago, when we went to eat pizza for a b-day celebration of a common friend (Lisa, let's say)
And now he calls me to ask me "hey, wanna go out to do, whatever, just go out and hang around or something?"
I was kinda clueless. How did he get my cellphone number by the way?
My answer: "okay, we can go out, to where and who else is coming with us? Our friends Lisa and Rica and Vanny?" (all fictional names LOL)
And the M Boy says: "no, errr....like....errr.......hmmmm......as in.......hmmm.....only the two of us, you know?"
O_O
Oh poor boy, really. Poor kid, he's so screwed. LOL XXXDDD
Just by his speaking pattern, you get the idea ne? He's kinda shy and laid back and something of a slacker, but all in all seems like a good person and he's.....so not my type. GOMEN KIDDO!
Me goes: "So, hey, you asking me out in date?" (inwardly, please say no no no)
He goes silent like a tomb for like 10 minutes. Oh god, I knew a massacre was coming. Answer: "I think so?"
*facepalm*
Me goes: "ah, well, I actually think it's better if we go out like friends with everyone else, like we have done before, ne? So, lets call the others and arrange going to the movies or something for the second week of september because frankly I am full with work right now and I'll get a free day until those dates. We cool?"
WAS I MEAN TO HIM? I didn't think I was. The M Boy said we were cool and that it would be great to go out with everyone again in september and then we said our goodbyes and ended the call.
Ten minutes later I was in the MSN speaking with our common friend Lisa, who turned out to be the person who gave out my cell number and who encouraged the poor kid to ask me out. Oh Lisa, honey, what were you thinking?
To my surprise, she was mad at me!! T.T Apparently I was damn cruel to the boy and damn it I look down onto my suitors and I'm a snob and et cetera.
Which suitors?! And if the M Boy wanted me to outright tell him I was not interested, he should have also been straightforward, ne? I tried to answer as neutral as possible, I hate people who humilate others.
AND damn it, Lisa, you know I like someone else!!!
Lisa says: "the person you like already has someone and he will never turn to look at you twice, get over it already"
T________T Alas, I did not know friends could be that mean when trying to set you up. Of course the person I like already has someone else, of course I know I won't have any kind of relationship with him, and damn it, this person is about to leave the country FOREVER and I will never see him again. Why my friends don't believe me that this is actually painful for me?
Lisa's words were kind of a low blow, but hey, truth is truth.
I won't speak with Lisa about this situation anymore. I don't want to go out with anyone right now, so don't send over strangers to ask me out, please. What started as a hilarious thing (LOL the M Boy asked me out, what a cutie but of course it's not possible, he should know that!) turned out as a creepy thing ( my friend ganging up on me and calling me a snob while rather harshly ignoring my feelings about the whole situation)
*sighs* What a day I had yesterday!! I need TO READ FICS ABOUT KANDA YUU AND FANGIRL ABOUT HIM to forget all this crap.
EDIT: Since I already ranted this long about this situation, let me add a couple of words.
I just remembered something about the M Boy. When I first met him like 4 years ago, he refused to greet me with a kiss on the cheek. Among friends, that is a custom here. I greet most of my friends, even men, with a kiss on the cheek. I found the M Boy's ideosyncrasy rather odd, but it was okay. Back then he never spent much time talking to me and was generally oblivious to my presence. I never cared much about him either.
BUT....Two weeks ago when we met again to eat pizza for Lisa's b-day, the M Boy looked at me (we hadn't met in about 2 years) and then approached me and gave me the kiss on the cheek as greeting. And that day when everyone split out to their houses, he also gave me a kiss for goobye.
So what's this, M Boy? It's because you just realized I'm a big girl now, ya know, boobies and all? *huff of indignation*
And here I end this, I better go and prepare for tomorrow's party anyway.